Bedtime routine, age by age 🌙

Bedtime keeps changing: naps at 1, the big-kid bed at 3, homework at 7, the tablet at 9. Pick your child's age for tips that match what you're living tonight, written by a dad, not a manual.

Tips by age

Hours of sleep, this year's struggles, a 20-minute routine and what to read

Why a routine, and why by age?

A bedtime routine is a sequence of the same steps in the same order every night: your child's body learns that after the bath comes the pyjamas, after the pyjamas the story, after the story the dark. They fall asleep faster because they know what's coming. That's true at 1 and at 10.

What changes is the content. At 2, the problem is the nap that gets skipped. At 4, it's the monsters under the bed. At 8, it's the tablet and the "five more minutes". The same tips for everyone help no one: that's why each age has its own page.

Every page follows the same plan, so you find your bearings from one year to the next: how many hours of sleep, the three most common struggles and what to do, a timed 20-minute routine, what to read and how, then the questions parents ask most often.

How many hours of sleep, at a glance

1 year11 to 14 hours a day, naps included
2 years11 to 14 hours a day, naps included
3 years10 to 13 hours a day, nap included
4 years10 to 13 hours a day, including a nap if they still take one
5 years10 to 13 hours a night
6 years9 to 12 hours a night
7 years9 to 12 hours a night
8 years9 to 12 hours a night
9 years9 to 12 hours a night
10 years9 to 11 hours a night

Guidance from the Canadian Paediatric Society. Every child is different: if yours wakes up in a good mood, they're probably sleeping enough.

The last step of the routine, by mail

At Contes de Lune, your child receives an illustrated card in their name every week, with a new chapter of a story where they're the hero. It naturally becomes the last step of bedtime. Their first story is free, to read on screen.

Create their first story for free

No credit card · then, if you love the adventure: the cards by mail for $14.99/month, delivery included in Canada.